For students of the recent certification courses
okay i wanted to make a video just quickly to go through some of the tips and some of the things that you should be starting to think about to get the most out of what you learnt in your certification course uh it's now a few weeks since you've finished the certification course and what i imagine you know when i compare you guys to probably like all the other groups that have done it you're going to have some people who have had massive changes straight away some people who are starting to make changes slowly in areas of their life and some people perhaps you know it's sad to see it who really haven't started to apply what they learned at all so what i thought i'd do is in this video go through three tips very quickly that can help you to get more results out of what you learned and what you went through in the course okay so the first tip and probably the most important thing i need to emphasize to you
is it's not about understanding it's about implementation you know if you remember the new action learning triangle right we have cognitive understanding we have you know the first form of action and implementation and then we finally get to identity now i know at this short period in time very few of you are going to be at the identity level that's going to take time for you to get there but you certainly should be starting to use all the skills that you learn in action regularly in everyday places in your life so what i would say to you is okay number one implementation what you want to do is you want to focus on a few of the skills right you want to focus on a few of the skills and you want to start to master them you want to start using them first off maybe in one area of your life maybe that's going to be your job all right maybe that's going to be your personal relationships and then very quickly you know within the space
of a month i want you to start you know once you've got some success in one area i want you to start spreading that out to all the other areas right so that you start using uh but that skill in multiple areas of your life and you're slowly going to be setting yourself up to get to the identity level so that's the first step is just implementation you must use what you learned if you don't right you will lose it i guarantee you you know and as no matter how good your notes are no matter how good you know you're going through revising and stuff like that if you don't start to use it quickly you're going to lose it so it's one of the key things that you must start to do is start to apply what you learned and use it in the different areas of your life all right step number two is chunk it right you need to chunk things down all right there are a lot of complicated things that i taught you in the certification course so what i
want you to understand is that you need to be able to chunk those things down into small steps that you can master one at a time so for example if that's sub-modalities let's say we're talking about sub-modalities perhaps the first step that you do is you start to elicit your own key drivers all right then you start to use that with yourself you start to make small incremental changes perhaps you you know start to use it as an urge management tool where you change uh you know how much you're driven to wanting something or driven away from wanting something then the next chunk might be that you start to elicit other people's key drivers now perhaps at the start you do that very overtly right then maybe the chunk after that is where you start to be able to use this a little bit more covertly with other people by eliciting their drivers through a normal conversation right one of the big things that i want to talk to you about is when you're
using the skills that you learnt in that course with other people you don't always want to do it covertly because you're going to find a lot of people you know don't want you to do so-called work on them right so you want to do that through a conversation so that's kind of like you know a few steps down the road but if you chunk it down and start out very simply with yourself then maybe with a close friend maybe in the practice group all right i then you start with some people that maybe you know didn't know anything about nlp and you try something with them and then gradually you work it through until eventually you can do it covertly without people knowing what you're doing that's certainly one of the keys of you know of the master level i but i want you to guys start working on it now because if you chunk it down and start doing it step by step you're gonna find a lot of those tips yourself and you're gonna work out a lot of those ways to do it step number three so first of all we've got implementation you must implement
step number two is chunk it down all right the third step and the last one i'm going to give you for this video is be daring right simply put you must dare to use some of these things some of these things are going to appear to you know make you feel uncomfortable at first they're going to make other people feel uncomfortable at first i you need to be able to master that feeling and you need to be able to get beyond it you need to be able to dare to do new things it's as simple as that because you know what a lot of the times at the start it's not going to work out exactly what how you wanted it now you've got two options when that happens you can either decide that you failed and totally give up and decide you know what all these skills that i learned it's not for me i'm not gonna you know all the certification skills you know they're not for me or you can decide you know what i got a lesson what did i do or what could have i done in this situation to get the result that i wanted to get if you start to look at the things
in that way and dare to try them again and again and again eventually you're gonna master them and when you master them that's when you've mastered your own internal communication you've mastered communication with other people and you're going to get results so one of the biggest factors to getting results is simply dare to do it now you know i've gotten the feedback from some of you and some of you are doing fantastic you know listening to some of the stories of how you're starting to use some of these skills and use some of the techniques all right just don't give up right keep daring to do it keep experimenting the more that you experiment and test what works for you what's the fastest way that you can create the change both in yourself and in other people that's a powerful technique to be able to be able to work with so those three steps there that i've given i'll just go through them again first ones you must implement all right we remember we're trying to get around to the identity level of learning from the
newer action model right the second one is you've got to chunk it down into steps that you can simply take and and measure how well you're working you know what's working what's not working and the third one and probably in many ways often the one that really determines the people who kind of know this stuff and the kind of people who get really really good at using it is you're going to dare to use it and i suggest you dare to use that you know in your business environment in your personal environment with your friends with your family with your your husband and wife your spouse your children all right and start to experiment look come from the frame of thinking that everything's an experiment you know one of the the biggest beliefs that i modeled from a guy who was really one of the the top persuaders one of the guys i really you know look up to is like wow this guy's amazing what he can do is he has the belief that life is just a
video game and everything's just a video game and you don't really die right if you do something wrong you just you know start again and you go back a few steps and then you have to do that part of the video game again i think that's a great belief to start installing in yourself and it's a certainly a great belief to use the skills that you learn in certification so on that note uh make sure you check in here i'm going to be having a lot more videos following up with specific techniques and showing you some of the things and you know giving you some more demo videos and that kind of stuff so i look forward to talking to you soon don't forget you can contact me you've all got my email you can email me i if you've got questions i really want to hear the questions you know hear what your challenges are i by getting the feedback from you guys i can then start to work out you know okay where you're having problems and i can give you some tips to help guide you along the way so until i talk to you again next time
get out there get daring and do it